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Monday Jun 17, 2019
Sam and Erica's Marriage Podcast - 014 - Emotional Needs, Affection and Sex
Monday Jun 17, 2019
Monday Jun 17, 2019
Meeting your Spouse’s Emotional Needs in Your Marriage Part 2 (Affection & Sexual Fulfillment)
Episode 014
June 17, 2019
Introduction
- Welcome
- Subscribe
- The 2nd part of our series on Meeting my Spouse’s Emotional needs. Affection and Sexual Fulfillment
Discussion
Erica: How we arrived at this topic- Share the conversation we had with the girls. ( See episode 13)
- Get dialogue going between husband and wife if nothing else
Recap See episode 13 for details
Questionnaire to identify your emotional need
- What are my emotional needs? Questionnaire
- Affection (Erica talks about this) As it turns out this is my #1 need Scripture Proverbs 31:10 “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”
- What are my emotional needs? Questionnaire
- Non sexual way of showing he cares
- Makes us feel like we are the most important person to you
- Things you used to do before you were married
- Men were not raised to show affection
- Tell him what you like
- Practical ways to meet your spouses emotional need for Affection
- Sexual Fulfillment (Sam talks about this)
- The misunderstanding
- Sex is as important to a man is as affection is to a woman and vise vera but we dont get it.
- Testosterone makes it a biological thing
- Men, most while their still boys, discover their sexuallity early and therefore usually bring more understanding of how to have a pleasurable sexual experience into a marriage.
- Motivation
- That sexdrive, the pleasure and the connection all motivate a man for women its a lot less biological and much more about intimacy and the emotional connection
- Practical ways to meet your spouse’s need of Sexual Fulfillment
- How do I feel/respond if my needs are not being met?
- Resentment
- Frustration- only restaurant - 1 Corinthians 7:5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
- Disconnect/Drift
- Affairs/Temptation
- Lashing out James 3:6 “The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
ACTION ITEMS
- Pray for our podcast/marriage-we are praying for you.
- Don’t forget to subscribe.
- Share the podcast with two other people.
- Now that you have a better idea of what your spouse’s emotional needs are try to focus on meeting his/her # 1 need this week. It may be awkward at first but so was that first date. Give each other grace as you exercise this muscle. You can do it!
RESOURCES
Bible
His Needs, Her Needs- Building an Affair Proof Marriage Willard F. Harley, Jr.
For Married Men Only- Dr. Tony Evans
For Married Women Only-Dr. Tony Evans
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